How to deal with a breakup

How to deal with a breakup Breakups are not easy, and they can leave you with a broken heart and anger. Everyone handles breakups differently, but here are a few tips on what can help you deal with one: DO:  Allow yourself to cry and express the emotions you are feeling. Talk about your feelings […]

Sex and blessers

Sex and blessers Someone who gives you money or buys you gifts in return for sexual or other favours is referred to as a “blesser” “sugar daddy” or “sugar mummy”. This person can  be someone who is the same age as you but has access to more money or a fancy car. It can also […]

Dating someone older

Dating someone older When you are in a relationship with someone older, it can be complicated. An older boyfriend or girlfriend might have access to things you don’t. They might live on their own, drive a nice car and have money to buy you nice things. All these may lead you to feel like you are […]

I’m struggling with communication in my relationship

I’m struggling with communication in my relationship Talking is a big way of communicating. But there are other ways to communicate such as your volume when you speak, your body language, and facial expressions. Are you and your partner struggling with communicating properly? Get tips on how to improve.  How does good communication look? Good […]

I’m in an abusive relationship and need help

I’m in an abusive relationship and need help Being in a relationship where your partner is abusive to you is known as intimate partner violence, which puts your safety at risk. It’s not always easy to immediately walk out of an abusive relationship. But working on a plan to make sure that you are safe […]

Is your relationship healthy or unhealthy?

Is your relationship healthy or unhealthy? Being in a relationship with someone who cares for you is a great experience. But not all relationships are healthy and some can even be abusive. It’s important to know the difference. + What does a healthy relationship look like? + What signs show that my relationship is unhealthy? […]

Should I come out about my sexuality or identity?

Should I come out about my sexuality or identity? Your teenage years are a time when you may start discovering your sexuality and identity and while it is exciting, it can also be confusing. Sexuality is an important part of who we all are and it includes feelings and attraction to other people.  Knowing you […]

The LGBTQIA+ dictionary​

The LGBTQIA+ dictionary​ Ever heard people talk about LGBTQIA+?  This is an acronym many people in the gay or lesbian community use. These words are about sexuality which means who you are attracted to and identity which means who you are and how you see yourself. So, when we use these words, we are talking […]

Fun with sex toys

Fun with sex toys What are sex toys? Sex toys are objects you can use to have more pleasure during masturbation or for pleasure with a partner. Just make sure that if you’re going to use them with your partner, you and your partner are both comfortable and have consented (agreed).  Everyone is different and different people like […]

Masturbation: Am I normal?

Masturbation: Am I normal? Masturbation is also called playing with yourself. This is when you touch or rub your own genitals or ‘sex organs’ in a way that feels good. People of all genders can masturbate to feel pleasure and to have an orgasm.  Is it normal to masturbate? A lot of people pleasure themselves. It […]